FAQ’s
While we’ve tried to cover the most common questions that arise, it’s impossible for us to answer all your queries about your experience with us. Remember our advice, whilst as valuable as our services are always free!
With that in mind, we encourage you to contact us today if you are still unsure about our services. We will be delighted to discuss your requirements before you book with us.
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1. Is The Fourth Space a typical dressing service?
2. What does The Fourth Space offer?
3. Where are you located?
4. I am inexperienced and nervous about visiting The Fourth Space!
5. Where do The Fourth Space customers come from?
6. What makes The Fourth Space unique?
7. How do I make an appointment?
8. What are The Fourth Space payment methods?
9. What should I bring with me when I visit The Fourth Space?
10. What happens on a professional photo shoot?
11. What do I take away from a professional photo shoot?
12. What should I do in order to prepare myself for a Fourth Space visit?
13. I have never discussed my dressing up with anyone?
Is The Fourth Space a typical dressing service?
No we are not a typical dressing service. If you want a quick makeover and wish to sit around dressed you are best placed to go to another one of the dressing services. We work with Clients who want professional make overs, professional photographs and who want to develop their cross dressing to a level where they can build it positively into their lifestyle. We work with Clients individually in a luxury and discrete location and have invested heavily into what we do. Please do not compare us with other dressing services which are available and we recommend that if in anyway you cannot see the value in what we do then it is best you visit the traditional dressing service that exists!!
What does The Fourth Space offer?
First and foremost we offer a discreet, exclusive and professional service in an environment that allows you to feel stress free, calm and comfortable. Building your confidence and style as you explore your feminine self is our main focus and priority. We cater for anyone requiring the very best Makeovers, Professional Photo shoots and Bespoke Packages that brings our customers back time and time again. We will do our very best to put you at your ease and pride ourselves on our friendly, approachable and fun manner! We must stress that we absolutely do not offer Personal / Sexual Services of any kind.
Where are you located?
The Fourth Space operates from two locations namely Chelsea in West London and near London Heathrow airport. Both locations are easily accessible by rail, bus or car.
I am inexperienced and nervous about visiting The Fourth Space
So were we the first time we went out! Tamara went out for the first time in 2003 and has never looked back. We welcome and encourage everyone regardless of their background, knowledge or experience! First and foremost our main priority is to offer you the chance to realize and fulfil your feminine aspirations. Remember, The Fourth Space was devised and is run by a unique partnership consisting of two people who came together from different walks of life. Tim aka Tamara and Jo have been through a magnitude of complex emotions which has enabled immense foresight not to mention empathy affording them total understanding in dealing with first timers and nervous customers – after all everyone has to start somewhere and what better place to start than here with us! We pride ourselves on offering bespoke appointments based on the individual. Prior to any appointment we hope to ascertain via email or conversation with you a general overview and profile so that we can understand your needs and build a rapport which ensures more importantly that you can trust and feel confident in us at The Fourth Space. We welcome customers from all walks of life who vary from the totally inexperienced to established T girls who are regulars on the tranny scene.
Where do The Fourth Space customers come from?
We have customers who visit us from all over the world. We are perfectly located for London Heathrow Airport as well as the M25, M4, M3 and M40 Motorways. Luckily London is one of the most tranny friendly capitals in the world. International clients are always welcome at The Fourth Space and often stay with us as part of their package.
What makes The Fourth Space unique?
What makes us unique is the combination of the brainchild behind The Fourth Space, JoJo and Tim aka Tamara. JoJo has been a professional model and worked with many top stylists and photographers within the fashion industry. She has worked in both film and television as a commercial, photographic and fashion model .She is also a professional make up artist who has worked with top models and celebrities. Her partner Tim aka Tamara has been a cross dresser since he was able to put on his first pair of heels! The combination of them both adds a unique blend of understanding, knowledge, expertise, experience and humility enabling the creation of The Fourth Space – a rare, exciting and dynamic duo! Collectively they have pulled together a wider team of professionals to add to their vision of making The Fourth Space the very best at what we do.
How do I make an appointment?
Whilst it is always advisable to book as much in advance as possible it is not always realistic and possible. We understand this. It may be that you decide on an impromptu visit to us as we understand and appreciate the nature and urge to venture out can often be an impulsive decision! We suggest where possible to avoid disappointment that you do try to book 15 – 20 days in advance if you can but always feel free to contact us to check our availability for all our services. Customers who wish to discuss any aspect with us further, or who want something a little “different” please don’t hesitate to contact us. Please feel free to ring or e mail us with any dates or times that are best suited to you. Visit our contact us page to e mail us with your individual requests and requirements. All dates and times are subject to availability.
What are The Fourth Space payment methods?
We require customers pay in advance to secure a booking. On confirmation of your appointment we request an electronic transfer of the appropriate amount via BACS or you can send a PayPal payment to us by. For total discretion cash can also be paid directly into our Barclays Bank Account. You do not need a PayPal account to pay with PayPal. PayPal fees are typically 3% of the fee paid which is taken by PayPal. We will advise you our relevant details for transfers upon booking.
What should I bring with me when I visit The Fourth Space?
We encourage girls to bring as much or as little of their own wardrobe as they need to. Depending on the service you are booking and your experience we will help style a look that works best for you based on a selection of what you bring in conjunction with the The Fourth Space wardrobe. Most girls bring their own lingerie and hosiery although we do have a selection if required.
What happens on a Professional Photo shoot?
Primarily our photo shoot experience is based on obtaining the right shots for you. We use a variety of backdrops and props to get the right look and effect. Our equipment is of the highest standards and we have our own techniques to maximise your look– If you want a private and professional photo shoot you will not find a better set up anywhere. All our photo shoots include a full professional make over, styling, access to our wardrobe as well as posing and styling advice.
What do I take away from a Photo shoot?
As well as the memories of being made to feel utterly fabulous and totally glamorized you will take with you on the day a CD of all the shots. What stands up apart is instant access to your shots as well as the fantastic option to have up to ten of your images retouched which is included within the price. There is an option to have additional images retouched too.
What should I do to prepare myself for a Fourth Space visit?
Remember we are here to make you look great, but in order to do that successfully, we need as good a foundation as possible to build from as possible. Clients vary immensely on the level of femininity they can achieve based on their personal circumstances. Some clients are totally hair free and have pierced ears where others are not able to eliminate their body hair due to their own personal situation. The most important thing is to have a good facial shave before you arrive (leave this as late as possible or you can do it at ours if required). Sideburns, bushy brows etc all can be hidden but if you can keep the brows trimmed or the sideburns cut back it will help. Equally if you have a moustache or a beard it’s not going to really be possible to make you look that feminine! If you can Veet (depilatory cream) or wax your body hair this will also help with the range of styles you can achieve. Sheer tights and stockings on hairy legs do not look great. If you cannot get rid of your body hair it does not matter as we can use opaque hosiery and a clever use of wardrobe etc. But being realistic the more girly you can make yourself the more girly we can make you! Finally we suggest all our girls arrive clean and smelling sweet – Personal hygiene and glamour go hand in hand! If you are worried about anything then please contact us if you have any questions.
I have never discussed my dressing up with anyone?
This is an all too familiar story. First of all you are not alone! Some estimates say 1 in 4 men enjoy dressing up as a girl. Tamara writes – My own personal experience was I kept to many secrets for too many years! It is only through meeting Jo that I have learned to strike a balance between Tim and Tamara. I hid my secret for 37 years and it even took me a year to confess my desire of dressing up to Jo. Whilst we offer no advice, counselling or opinion what we can do is listen and offer personal experience, stories which may go some way towards comforting and reassuring you. One thing to take away from this small paragraph is that there will always be a right and wrong time for everything in life – you have to listen and trust your intuition and instincts. Surely a metaphor for life in general. One thing that is really important to us is helping anyone who does not get the real fun and enjoyment of dressing up as they have to keep it behind locked doors. Let us help you unlock and welcome the girl inside!